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Roadblocks to Healing
A FEW POSSIBLE ROADBLOCKS TO HEALING
What we believe creates our expectations and what is expected has a powerful tendency to occur. What you say out loud helps to form your belief and engages the Law of Expectation.
Tim Simmerman Sierra - Medical Hypnotherapy Vol 1
Organ Language/Self Talk
- Your subconscious mind hears everything you say
- I feel so sad “my heart is broken”
- My co-worker is a “pain in my neck”
- I am so tired “I need a break”
- My job is "killing" me!
- There are many expressions we use unconsciously, which are considered autosuggestions and in some cases the subconscious mind will actually begin to create the condition.
Stress & Self Esteem
- One of the underlying causes of stress is low self-esteem. Low self-esteem can cause you to perceive yourself as being less capable of dealing with situations that happen in your life. If you have negative beliefs about yourself, life situations may be perceived as being more difficult and stressful than they need to be
Having a Secondary Gain
- You are normally not consciously aware of having a “secondary gain” because you really want to heal and feel better, but the unconscious desire to have your needs met can be stronger, causing you to remain ill.
- You might really enjoy the additional attention and love from family and friends when you are ill, knowing that you’ll have to go back to your normal life when you heal, which means going back to work, being able to do housework, taking care of the kids, feeling stressed, etc. might unconsciously keep you from healing.
- You might be able to receive financial assistance when an injury or illness happens, and again, this is a nice benefit for you to rest and reduce stress for your healing process, but this can also unconsciously create a barrier to healing, because when you heal, resuming your normal job and activities is required. In reality, finding a new job that you enjoy, or asking for emotional support from family and friends will improve your outcome.
- Asking for what you need, mentally, emotionally, and physically, can be difficult. Changing careers or finding a new, more satisfying job will take you out of your comfort zone, but being ill for months or years because you are uncomfortable making a change or don’t feel worthy to ask for what you want or need is a hard lesson to learn.
- I recommend finding a good counselor, therapist, or coach, to support you with life issues and relationship issues, because life can be difficult, as it usually is in this human form. Suffering however, is optional, and learning to talk about how you feel is so very important for your physical, mental, and emotional health.
